Friendship advice? Am I blaming him for my anxiety?
Sorry if this is tl;dr lol but I would really appreciate your thoughts on my situation cuz I'm not sure what to think.So I've known my good friend for a little over a year now, and he's always told me...
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Dramatica Mujer wrote:It sounds like you may not have self awareness. You say your anxiety isn't as severe as your schizophrenic friend whom you can't handle, but maybe to your friend who doesn't have...
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sometimes we go through the same thing but in different ways. my sister has depression but it's partly out of being lonely and will jump at the chance to spend time with people. one of my best friends...
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rfreaxelectric wrote:Dramatica Mujer wrote:It sounds like you may not have self awareness. You say your anxiety isn't as severe as your schizophrenic friend whom you can't handle, but maybe to your...
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Do not apologize - that's just more drama...leave it alone.
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Yeah, if you've already spoken to him about the situation (which is sounds like you have) then leave it alone. You need to focus on you. If he decides he wants to continue the friendship then he can...
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Oh we were already talking, but he was replying very infrequently so that added to the drama that I was still trying to get over. I wrote him a thing yesterday apologizing for taking my anxiety out on...
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What you're looking for the average person most usually would not provide; this friend or anyone else. Your situation requires professional help and this friend probably felt overwhelmed. I know I...
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GloriaW wrote:What you're looking for the average person most usually would not provide; this friend or anyone else. Your situation requires professional help and this friend probably felt...
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rfreaxelectric wrote:GloriaW wrote:What you're looking for the average person most usually would not provide; this friend or anyone else. Your situation requires professional help and this friend...
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rfreaxelectric wrote:GloriaW wrote:What you're looking for the average person most usually would not provide; this friend or anyone else. Your situation requires professional help and this friend...
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Thanks! I wanted to learn from this situation and tbh it took this thread to realize how foolish I was acting. I was so grateful for all your responses, especially as all of my friends were like just...
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Update: so things were pretty much back to normal until last Thursday when I had a bunch of questions about the store he used to work at. He either didn't know the answers or was giving me short...
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Is this guy gay? He sounds a little fussy. Also this friendship sounds exhausting. You're expecting way too much from someone who is just a friend. The fact that you get upset that he's on social...
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Dramatica Mujer wrote:He sounds a little fussy. Also this friendship sounds exhausting. You're expecting way too much from someone who is just a friend. The fact that you get upset that he's on social...
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rfreaxelectric wrote:Update: so things were pretty much back to normal until last Thursday when I had a bunch of questions about the store he used to work at. He either didn't know the answers or was...
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^ I agree. This friendship is going to end eventually, I can see it. I value friendships greatly, but good lord, a friend is not obligated to talk to you every single day. He's not your boyfriend. I...
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rfreaxelectric wrote:Update: so things were pretty much back to normal until last Thursday when I had a bunch of questions about the store he used to work at. He either didn't know the answers or was...
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Are you sure you are only friends?
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You need to leave this alone - and leave him alone - until your mental health is in a better place. You're destroying what little bit of a friendship you do have with this dude. Also, it sounds like...
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rfreaxelectric wrote: We talk everyday, and he didn't message me until 2 days later. I had just told him 2 weeks ago that when he doesn't talk to me for an extended period of time while I see him...
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